Have you truly understood the real meaning of devotion?

Have you ever wondered why, even after worshipping God every day or visiting temples, the mind does not find true peace?

We follow many rituals and traditions in the name of devotion. Yet, restlessness, anger, and ego remain in our lives. Why does this happen? It is because we accept only the outer meaning of devotion, but we never reach its depth.

Devotion means offering everything and forgetting yourself completely. It is not just a definition, but a complete way of life. It stands firmly on patience, where not even a trace of ego remains.

In this article, we will delve deeper into the meaning of devotion. We will not only discuss it in theory, but also look at practical ways to live with true devotion—how to develop patience and how to free ourselves from the trap of ego.

Let us begin this spiritual journey.

The Inner Meaning of Devotion:

For many people, worship means lighting a lamp before God, offering flowers, or chanting mantras. These acts are valuable, but they are only the beginning of the spiritual journey, not the end. They are outer actions. The true essence lies within.

Imagine you are holding two coconuts. One may look beautiful from the outside, but it is hollow and rotten inside. On the outside, it seems ordinary, but inside, it holds sweetness and nourishment. Which one will the Divine accept? Certainly, the one that is full on the inside.

In the same way, our worship should also be like that second coconut—filled with love, faith, and surrender from within.

Saint Tukaram Maharaj said:

“Tuka says, nothing moves in haste; the right fruit comes only at the right time.”

Spiritual progress unfolds gradually and only occurs when the heart is ready.

Giving Everything Without Losing Anything:

The phrase “offering everything” often makes people afraid. They think it means leaving their home, family, or job to live as a monk.

But this is a big misunderstanding. It does not mean giving up material things. It means giving up attachment to those things and letting go of the feeling of “this is mine.”

1. Letting Go of ‘Mine’ to Find Devotion:

You can live in your house, keep your job, and care for your family.

But while doing all this, you must not feel that everything belongs to you.

Instead of saying, “This house is mine,” you can feel, “This is a place given by God. I am only taking care of it.” Don’t think with pride, “I take care of my family.” Think humbly, “God lets me serve them.”

A simple example is a mother’s love for her child. She does everything for the child, but without the thought, “I am so great.” Her love is pure and selfless.

When we bring this same selfless love into all our actions and relationships, true surrender begins.

2. Going Beyond “I” and “Mine”:

The root of the ego lies in the words “I” and “mine.”

• I did this.
• My house, my car, my success.

When we offer everything to the Supreme Power, the “I” is no longer the doer. It becomes only an instrument. If success comes, it is by His grace. If failure comes, it is by His will. With this feeling, pleasure and pain no longer disturb the mind. One then experiences deep and boundless peace. It is true devotion.

Patience — the greatest companion of devotion:

Devotion is not like 2-minute Maggi. It does not form instantly. It is a long and sometimes difficult journey. On this path, restraint is your most faithful friend. Without restraint, devotion cannot last.

Imagine you plant a mango seed in the ground. You water it every day. You do not see a mango tree the next day. Would you please dig up the seed and discard it? No.

You know it will take time. First, a sprout appears. Then a sapling grows. Later, it becomes a tree. After many years, it gives fruit.

The seed of devotion is the same. Repeating the divine name, serving others, and praying are the water for that seed. With patience and steady care, devotion will bear sweet fruit. That fruit is peace and true joy.

How does patience reduce ego?

The ego wants everything right away. It says, “I sang for an hour today — I should have a vision tomorrow!” That is the voice of the ego.

Patience teaches a different way. It encourages us to continue performing our duties without anticipating the outcome.

• Ego says: “I want results.”
• Patience says, “I will enjoy the process.”

When we practise patience, we learn to trust the timing and wisdom of the supreme power, not just our own wishes.
That trust slowly softens and melts the ego.

For example, Shabari waited many years for Lord Shri Rama with patience. Her patience became the strong base of her devotion.

Ego — Devotion’s Greatest Obstacle:

If devotion is a pure flow, the ego is a large rock stuck in that flow. It stops the water from moving forward. The experience of devotion cannot arise because of the influence of the ego.

The ego appears in many subtle forms. Sometimes it comes as pride: “I am a greater devotee than others.” Sometimes it comes as a complaint: “I serve so much — why doesn’t God listen to me?” Sometimes it even hides as the thought: “I am so humble.”

In a village, there lived a learned priest and a simple, illiterate farmer. The priest performed rituals each day and took great pride in his extensive knowledge.
The farmer prayed with faith: “Lord, I do not know much. Please take care of everything.”

One year, a flood came to the village.
The priest sat at home begging God, “I am such a great devotee — save me!” But the water kept rising. The farmer calmly took shelter on high ground and said, “As you wish, Lord.” When the rescue team arrived, they found the priest drowned in the waters of ego, while the simple farmer was safe because of his faith and surrender.

The lesson is clear: Surrender and freedom from ego matter more for devotion than knowledge or rituals.

How to Practice True Devotion:

Let’s look at some simple, practical steps you can use every day to bring true devotion into your life.

• Selfless service (Karma Yoga):
  • Offer every action to God. Whether at the office or at home, do your work as service. Perform your duty honestly without expecting results. For more, study Karma Yoga in the Bhagavad Gita. (Read more in our Karmayoga: Ancient Wisdom for Modern Living article.)
• Name remembrance (Japa):
  • Chant the name of your chosen deity regularly. Repeating God’s name helps the mind stay calm and clear. While chanting, try to feel that the chanting is happening through you, not “I am chanting.”
• Gratitude:
  • Take a moment each day to express gratitude to God for the blessings you have. Instead of complaining about what you lack, be grateful for what you already possess. Gratitude reduces ego and increases humility.
• Prayer:
  • Pray to connect, not just to ask. Rather than saying, “Lord, give me this,” pray, “Lord, give me the strength to walk the right path and the wisdom to accept Your will.”
• Self-introspection:
  • Spend five minutes each night reviewing your thoughts and actions. Ask yourself: Where did I act from ego today? Where did I lose patience? This self-awareness will help you change slowly over time.

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Conclusion:

So, what have we learned?
True devotion is not found in the temple’s top or in ritual show. It lives in the heart.

Devotion means offering everything and forgetting oneself. This path is not easy because our greatest enemy — the ego — stays with us.

But with the two tools of patience and surrender, we can overcome it. Devotion is not about getting something; it is about losing yourself. When you lose yourself, you gain what is truly lasting and joyful.

Now is the time to give your spiritual journey a new direction. Transcend mere outward actions and ignite the true light of devotion within you.

What do you think is the simplest way to practice true devotion in today’s busy life?
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